When we look around a lot of videos and see how useless many people are at so called love making,it makes us think we need to educate people. You only have to look at the divorce rates. You would'nt buy a car without going for test drive. Yet my mother said she waited for Mr Right to arrive. Well who at a young age would anyone know what Mr Right was like. It's only after getting married (circa 1930) that they found that they were not compatible, although they did'nt know it at the time. Times have changed but having said that, have they, people are still steeped in old traditions and can't relax when it come's to love making, which is a pity. My husband and I, both 46, have a great sex life both in and out the house, no kids, no baggage, all we ask for is sunshine on our backs!